As a couple discuss and set goals for your future. Setting goals motivates both of you and helps both of you to stay disciplined in managing all your resources better towards achieving the goals. Ensure that both of you clearly understand and commit to these goals.
Don’t miss any opportunity to say thank you to your spouse. Don’t reserve saying “thank you” for special occasions. Saying thank you has no financial cost but can significantly motivate your spouse to serve you better.
These is applicable at the relationship, courtship and in marriage situations as well.