Offenses seem indispensable in relationship and marriage itself so is forgiveness. The offender must really accept and realize the mistakes committed. This is a stage where the offender has really and genuinely repented of his misconduct.
The offender must really decide to take steps to ask for forgiveness. The offender must really ask how do I ask for forgiveness? He/ She should be really ready of the immediate response that may come from the offended when forgiveness is asked.
Asking for forgiveness involves practically and genuinely letting the offended know that he has hurt him or her badly. The whole process should be a natural process. Once the act is genuinely done the response on so many occasions positive.
After forgiveness is achieved the offender must fully demonstrate that he/she was sorry for the the wrong done by turning a new leave. The offender must not repeat the mistake again.
The offender must know that damage is being repaired here and so what should be done to gain the trust and love again from the other spouse or fiancée should be done.